Guy + Girl + Friendship = NEVER!!!

People get along with same kind of people; that is why guys hangs out with guys and girls hangs out with girls. When it's mixed with lot of quantity of both, it's great, but when it's 1 on 1, or when it's in small number of people, it tents to get harder. It's natural, there is nothing wrong of thinking that you are weird around girls/ guys because we have different interest, dialogue, and way of thinking. Not saying, it's not possible to be friends with opposite sex; I have many females friends, but at the end of the day, you will be more comfortable talking to your own sex rather than opposite. I know I have people here thinking, well I got opposite sex friends that I can call and BLAH BLAH BLAH; I'm not talking about that, but more so, being best friends or anything close. I will tell you exactly how the situation is; one of the them is in love with one of them, that is it. Most of times, it will be guys. Guys will do anything to help a female friend out and keep their mouth shut so he doesn't make things awkward. He is happy that you call him and he can be around you and (here is the under belly) hope that one day he can get lucky by ............oh, i don't know.............one of those drunk night mistakes. One person wants to fuck another one and that is the straight truth to it. Of course, there is a starting age point for this, but Im sure, most of my readers are over 18. Back to the point, you know it's weird to think so, but then again, is it that weird? I have friends that I grew up, that I known for damn near a decade but I still would do' em. I know you think this is so straight forward, but I tell it like it is. One of your opposite sex friend will have sex with you or at least wants to. it is what it is. Look at the movie "Zack and Miri makes a porno"; they known each other since 1st grade and they ended up falling in love. I would think that Seth Rogen or Zack wanted to have sex with Miri for a long time but just kept it in friend zone for awhile. It is what it is. So idea of guy and girl being friends is funny to me, in some way. 



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